Hily

I’m super private online, so dating apps always made me nervous. But with Hily, the vibe was different. First off, their verification is quick but solid — no fake profiles so far, which is huge. Second, I liked how the app didn't feel pushy. It let me go at my own pace. I matched with someone who also prefers a slower start, and we ended up having a week-long convo before even exchanging social media. We shared playlists and talked about road trips we want to take. Felt safe and real — and honestly, that’s the first time I’ve said that about a dating app.

I downloaded Hily not expecting much, but it kinda changed how I see dating apps. First thing I noticed was how chill the layout is, like it’s not trying to overload you with stuff. Then came the icebreakers — super helpful, especially if you hate making the first move. But what really got me was how many of my matches actually wanted to talk about something, not just small talk. One guy and I ended up chatting about hiking spots in Oregon and swapped trail recs for a full hour. That’s rare. If you’re tired of the same old “wyd” convos, Hily actually gives you space for real ones.

I was so over the performative dating app culture — everyone trying to look cooler than they are, showing off trips and filters. Hily felt refreshingly normal. The design is simple, the chats don’t feel forced, and the people I met there actually seemed open. One guy and I ended up talking about why we both left social media and how exhausting everything online feels. No pretending, no pressure. Just quiet, real connection. That’s rare now, and I’m grateful for it.

What sets the Hily dating app apart is the "compatibility stories" feature. It's usually spot on about communication styles or sense of humor. Makes me more willing to give people a chance who might not be my usual "type" visually. Has definitely led to some unexpectedly great conversations with people I would've otherwise passed on.

one thing I like abt Hily is the chat setup actually helps keep convos goin. most apps feel dry n boring but this one makes it easier to talk fr. feels more like gettin to know someone, not just swipin around

don’t sleep on Hily. It’s cleaner than most dating apps and ppl actually talk hereet someone who’s on the same page about life goals and values. Never had that happen this quick on any app before.

I was always skeptical about online dating, but Hily changed my mind. Thanks to this app, I met an incredible girl with whom we have been together for several months. We are planning a trip together!